Why put up with the Frou?

During dinner last night, DailyToe and The German called me a "domineering bitch".

I shrugged and poke at the slice of pizza with the biggest piece of bacon - with my fingers - so that the two girls will have to give up that piece to me.

"Domineering, meh?" I ask between mouthfuls. "In what ways?"

I was told that I am very Leo - impatient, overbearing, likes to have things my way and always makes decisions for everyone.

"Wah! If I am so horrible, why do you girls give in to me all the time?" I asked.

Dailytoe says that she gives in to me not because she wants to - but because...*struggles* ..... I give in to her sometimes too and is a pugilistic friend.

The stoic German insists that she doesn't give in to me. This is after she ran like Forrest Gump all the way from Toa Payoh to Ang Mo Kio because I texted her and said that I am hungry, I want dinner at 9pm sharp and I am not going to wait for her otherwise. Dailytoe joked that she should come to where we are by foot - and The German puts on her running shoes, plugged in her iPod and did just that.

I came home, got online and found The Queen and Phillip. I asked them whether they think I am a domineering bitch.

The Queen says that she is the domineering one in our relationship so there is really no issue.

Phillip says I am but he puts up with me because it is easier.

Frou: Easier how?
Phillip: Easier on the ears.

Apparently, when I don't get my way, I talk a lot. In a higher pitch and very loudly (I am Hakka mah!) In short, I become a vessel of noise. He also mentions that my face turns jet black. All in all, it is not a pretty sight/sound and he rather just give in rather than endure a vexatious time.

But I think that sometimes people actually like it that I make decisions for them. For example, I went away for a holiday once and received a text message from my two friends, Secretary & Minion, telling me that they are rather lost without me - they are sitting in a restaurant wondering what to order. Over sms, I 'suggest' what they should eat for lunch.

Er yes... I did call them "Secretary" and "Minion". They call me "President".

SO,

My question is: Do I just have very compliant friends? Or am I really a domineering bitch? If so, do they put up with me because they.... *gulp* LURVES me?

Woot!

*The Frou dances around*